Our Actions........

Today, me and my roommates were discussing about the affects of our actions in our daily lives.While discussing, one of them asked,"How do we know our actions are right or wrong? becoz what i actually deem to be correct might be incorrect for somebody else for eg a terrorist,even while creating a havoc amongst innocent people,continues to believe that his actions are right." Now,this question made us wear our thinking hats.Each one started providing solutions one by one.Some said we should listen to our conscience,some said we should look at the society at large etc etc.My friend did not seem to be convinced with the solutions.So, I intervened and asked him a question,"Brother,tell me, in ur life whom do u love the most?"He seemed confused with this question.I signaled him to answer the question.He said,"I love my mother the most."To which i replied,"Then, before u perform any action just think if that action will make her feel happy or sad.In case,u feel she would be happy or proud with that action then that action would be the right one.Be it anyone whom u luv,ur mother,father,girlfriend or GOD,if u feel they would approve this action or behavior of urs,then u have passed the litmus test of life."